Complicated

Met up with several friends over those few days. One of them mentioned that the one you loved most won't be the one you married with. Well, i agree with that and i am sure many agree too. Often, even you loved him/her most, you may not be the one whom he/she love most. Some say love cannot be measured, cannot be weighed, what when true love comes, etc etc (assuming true love is one you loved most); everything so ideal and so fairytale. But in this real world, how ideal or fairytale can it be. Usually, people will have several relationships before settling down with someone. So among these relationships, different levels of love are exprienced, often hard to compared. Some will say 1st love as someone they loved most. Others say subsequent ones are better. Some will say this he/she now seems so perfect for him/her. I guess it's all up to each individual to define.

Of cos, ideally, the one you married should be the one you loved most. But how are you going to guage which one you loved most without having other r/s to compare with?? Maybe you will love the next one more than your current one? If that is really the case, since one you having now isn't the one you going to marry with, then why waste time?? Then when your next one comes, will it be too late to realise actually the previous one is the one u loved most?? haha..so many questions. I guess it's really hard to draw a clear line.

I think it is not really important to marry someone u loved most. But it is important to marry someone you really love, someone who is just right for you. Forget the past (one u loved most, if any), cherish the present (one u love now), work together for the future.