S-I-N-G-L-E

Well, i am back to being single again. She left me. And i am all alone now.

HAHA. Gotcha!

Guess i am too bored la. Dear went oversea vacation with her family for a week, somemore over a long weekend. So i am all alone over the weekend, staying at my house rotting. Is it me or is this normal. When your other half is not with you, you feel something is missing. But when he or she is around, you will hope for some personal space and time. Haiz, guess humans are all like that.

Working life can be happening but i guess most of us just lead a very normal one. It's not easy, requires an effort, to keep your life colourful. The circle of friends tends to get smaller as time goes by. And soon you will realise, it's your colleagues that are the closest to you. Closest, in the sense of amount of time spend together. 5/7 days, how not to be close? Whether or not, this closeness can be "upgraded" into good friends, brothers, or even couples will be a different story.

However, some of my colleagues, young engineers like me, don't seem to agree that the social circle gets smaller. This puzzles me quite alot. According to them, they know new friends through friends. But what are the chances of your friends bringing new friends to your gathering? It has to be "purposely", maybe wanna introduce guy A to gal A or something? Unless it's an activity group such as some sport club/game or a Sunday church group, which i think at least its not applicable to ALL.

I guess i am not a active person. Haha, that's why i couldn't understand their logic well. Maybe it's also not good to be too active. You would be spending more time of your activity rather than your love ones. Perhaps too many choices making you a picky person?

Happening or not, a balanced lifestyle is important.